Nice guys finishes last

Nice Guy Finishes Last by BKR

Okay, so it is the most overused cliche for nice guys.
But no matter how hard people try agrue against in my experiences- Unfortunately this simple little Cliche speaks true in reality.
how did I come to this conclusion - well mostly through my experiences, talking to women and observing some nice guy specimen (No Not gay).

Simply, most nice guys are nervous little buggers and despite interest and subtle signals from girls. most guys give up before they even bother trying.
And guess what those guys who are complete bastards or confident dudes will try and sometimes succeed in swooping the girls of their feet.

And even if guys bother to overcome the voice at the back of their heads to pull out, they go on to make simple mistakes Talking too long about topics they shouldn't talk about (sex..Unless it's appropriate, politics, religion), guys looking down at their feet (no eye contact), guys talking too long and guys buying girls drinks (I know it sounds like common coutersy but girls are offered drinks but heaps of guys and soon they will just accept and leave).

Even though Girls whinge about their boyfriend or guy being a jerk they always seem to stay with them, why you ask? I tell you it's nothing to do with looks, it's the attitude factor.
Guys who tend to act with control tend to have their girlfriend stick with them thick on thin.

This may sound ridiculously but after an expeeriment I have done with an ex girlfriend it's true, The experiment was to act like a jerk to my girlfriend although I was expecting to be dumped in no time however I was treated more differently my girlfriend seemed more proud of being my girlfriend and started showering with gifts and Sex.
Finally I ended the relationship I could no longer physically handle it (Guilt was tormenting my body).

Whats my suggestion for nice guy, Use the confident used by jerks and always remain in control of the picking up or dating situation.....however always show respect and care for your girl although they like a confident, strong man they will dump or cheat on you if you constanly treat her like garabage.